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Wednesday, December 31, 2014

From Ann - Memory of Sharon Gail

My youngest sister was Sharon Gail Thomas; she was born September 19, 1951. That is a day I remember very well.

Ms Alberta had taken us three older children down to the company store. Ms Alberta usually held Jean’s hand and Danny’s hand and, since I was the oldest, I held onto her skirt tail. That way she knew she had all of her children safe and she knew where we were.

That day Jean was tired and Ms Alberta had picked her up to carry her; Dan and I held onto her skirt tail. Somehow, Ms Alberta tripped and stumbled; she twisted her body to protect Jean and fell belly bust across the metal railroad track.

When she stood up she was pale and water started running down her legs. Neighbors had seen when she fell and came rushing to help.

Ms Alberta was taken to Harlan Hospital in Harlan, Harlan County, Kentucky where she underwent an emergency c section.

I remember thinking how beautiful Sharon Gail was; so tiny, but so perfect in every way. Sharon Gail seemed to grow and thrive at a rapid rate.

By the first week of December I was allowed to sit and hold my beautiful baby sister while Ms Alberta was fixing breakfast. This was the time I was allowed to feed Sharon, while Ms Alberta was fixing breakfast. I would sit in my little rocking chair, with a pillow under my arm to help support her head while she took a bottle.

My father, Harold, was a coal miner. Every morning we would all get up when he did so we could eat breakfast when he did. The morning of December 7th, Sharon didn't wake up when we did. When I asked Ms Alberta why she was still asleep; I was told it was because she had been up later the night before and was just sleeping in. Sharon Gail had laughed out loud for the first time. The soft, musical sound still rings in my memory.

My Dad had all ready gone to work; Ms Alberta was cleaning up the kitchen while Danny and Jean sat in their high chairs finishing up breakfasts. I was sitting in my rocking chair waiting for Sharon Gail to wake up.

The houses we were required to rent from the coal mine owners didn't have screens on the windows and they didn't have screen doors. Ms Alberta had opened the kitchen door to allow heat from the cooking stove out.

A cat came in the open back door; it wrapped itself around first Jean’s high chair legs and then Danny’s high chair legs. When it had done that it turned, looked at me and went to the closed door of the bedroom where Sharon Gail was.

I remember calling out to Ms Alberta and asking again about Sharon Gail and that was when Ms Alberta noticed the cat at the bedroom door.

Ms Alberta ran to the bedroom door and I followed her in. Sharon Gail was lying in the middle of the bed, her face was blue and she wasn't breathing.

Ms Alberta grabbed Sharon Gail up, shook her, and then started screaming and running. I followed her as far as the open back door; but I stayed with my younger brother and sister.

Not much later a neighbor came to get us three children; to take us to where Ms Alberta sat in a chair looking off into the distance. She was waiting for my father to be told and for him to come be with her.

Sharon Gail had been placed on a bed in the neighbor’s bedroom, covered up with a white chenille bedspread, which had pink rose buds and roses around the outside edges and through the middle. I know what the bedspread looked like because I snuck in to see my baby sister.

I had pulled the spread back so I could see her. The neighbor caught me looking at her and told me I was probably too young to know what death was, but Sharon Gail had died and there was nothing that anyone could do about it.

But I did understand what death meant, because just the week before I had found a dead bird and Dad had explained it had died and that we would bury it. I knew that my baby sister would have to be buried and it made me very sad.
This is the only picture of Sharon Gail, it was taken just weeks before she died; that's me holding her.

Ms Alberta mentions December 7, 1951 and the death of her youngest child, Sharon Gail Thomas.

 Posted: 2012 February (19) 1951 December 7 

I was four years, eleven months and eight days old when Sharon Gail died. I can remember that day as if it was yesterday.

From Anne

Happy New Year to one and all!


Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Memories from Anne

I haven’t lived an interesting live like Ms Alberta, but I thought I would add a few of my memories growing up with Ms Alberta and Dad.


My very first memory was of the coal mining camp. My grandmother lived on the other side of a small rushing creek.

There was a wide log that crossed the creek and I knew that was the way to get to my grandmother, Mom Shoupe’s house.

I could hear and see a honey bee buzzing beside my head as I 
considered crossing that log. I can remember thinking that if Ms. Alberta saw me crossing that I wouldn't be allowed to go; so I 
decided that I should walk across backwards.

That is what I was doing when Ms Alberta saw me. My short visit 
to Mom Shoupe’s house was over before it got started.


Ms Alberta said I was about three years old when I did this.

Saturday, December 27, 2014

From Ann Where Does Time Go?

In just three more days I will celebrate my sixty eighth birthday.

I really am not sure where all the years went. I am not even sure who that gray haired woman in the mirror is.

What I am sure of is that I have three daughters, seven grandchildren and five great grands; with number six great grand due in March of 2015.

Just look at what we started Heinz! lol

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Inspirational

Philippians 4:6 - 7

Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.





I think it is very hard to always remember that God has a plan for our lives. It is harder still to find a place of quiet where we can allow ourselves to listen to that still voice from God.

If we become quiet and listen then the comfort and peace from God will fill our hearts, our lives; then spill over to those around us.


I praise God, and Jesus the Savior for sending the Holy Ghost to fill my heart and soul. Without that comfort and peace from The Lord, my life would be a much more desolate place.

Monday, December 22, 2014

Recipe Homemade Doughnuts

 Basic Doughnut Recipe – Can be Used in Miniature Doughnut Maker

1 cup flour                                            1/2 cup sugar,
1 tbsp baking powder                           1/2 cup milk
1 egg                                                    1/2 tsp vanilla
4 tablespoons cooking oil

— mix dry ingredients together.

Add egg, vanilla and milk and beat 1 minute with electric mixer


– add oil and continue to beat for 1 minute more.

This is all of the recipe as it appears in Ms Alberta's notes. My granddaughter, Kaylee Michelle, and I used it to make donuts in her Miniature Doughnut Maker. I have also dropped them into a hot oil kettle for cooking, then dusted them with powdered sugar and/or cinnamon and sugar mix. They are good either way.

When I use this recipe I wonder when and how she acquired the recipe. Was it one she made up on her own? Or was it one from someone else?

Let me encourage anyone who loves to cook to give credit where due for recipes, where, when and from whom they came. There may come a time you will wonder and not remember.

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Quote from Billy Graham


“It is the Holy Spirit's job to convict, 


     God's job to judge 


         and my job to love.” 


            - Billy Graham



I think it should be all of our jobs - to love one 

another, without judgment.  Life is too short 

for hatred and judgement. Hate the sin, love 

the sinner. This is my concept of what the 

Bible teaches.

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Guide to Finding Postings

Map to Ms Alberta’s Blog: On extreme right is the Blog Archive with arrows. Beside each arrow is a Year with the (number of Posts) posted during that year. The current year also has months, followed by the (number of Posts) posted during that month.

·  The first posting was January 2012. It is listed 2009 - Cabin Fever - The Start of My Memory Book.
 At the bottom of each post there is a comment section. I would enjoy hearing any comments you all have. Thank you Alberta Anne Thomas

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Recipe Bread in a Coffee Can - Submitted by Cousin Beckie Wilson from MyFridgeFood.com

Beckie Wilson shared MyFridgeFood.com's photo.   

Bake your bread in a Coffee Can - great for sandwiches (with the crust already cut off lol), also if you need to bake multiple loaves at once 
Procedure - make your bread dough (simple recipe below if you don't already have one) GREASE the coffee can and only fill it HALF way if you're making a bread with yeast in it.... had a really hard "forehead slap" over that one lol. Put the lid on and let it rise until the lids pop off. Then bake!
BREAD - JUST BREAD
Description:      Homemade!                 Cooking Time:              70 Minutes
Recipes Makes:            15 Servings                              Calories:           111
Carbs:              16 Grams
Fat:                  4 Grams
Protein: 2 Grams
 Ingredients
1/2 cup warm water (110 degrees F/45 degrees C)                   4 tablespoons olive oil
2 1/4 teaspoons active dry yeast                                               2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon white sugar                                                             1 teaspoon salt

Directions
1. In a large bowl mix together the warm water (110 degrees), yeast, sugar, salt, and olive oil. Stir in 2 cups of the flour in order to make a soft ball. Knead in additional flour so that dough is soft and not sticky. Place kneaded dough in a medium size greased bowl. Cover and let rise until doubled in size.
2. Punch down dough, and form into ball or loaf shape. Place onto a greased cookie sheet. Cover and let rise for 15 to 20 minutes. Preheat the oven to 375 degrees F (190 degrees C).

3. Bake in the preheated oven for 30 to 40 minutes, until golden brown.

Monday, December 15, 2014

Recipe - Family Recipe from Sue Shoupe McVaney, Ms Alberta's youngest sister

Cornbread Stuffing

Sue Shoupe McVaney

Fry:                2 lb. sausage; cool and drain; then crumble. Set aside.

Chop:             3 cups onions               

                       3 cups celery


Put 2 tablespoons oil in skillet; dump in onions and celery.

Cook until soft; dump in large bowl with 2 bags bread crumbs.

Drain 1 – 8 ounce can of mushrooms

Mix all of above together with 2 eggs; add chicken broth until you 
have it wet or as you like it.


Bake at 325 degrees for 1 hour. You can put some inside and around your turkey, if you like.

Saturday, December 13, 2014

Inspirational Quotes

Inspirational Quotes

“It’s hard to wait around for something you know might never happen; but it’s harder to give up when you know its everything you want.” – Unknown

“One of the most important keys to Success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do, even when you don’t feel like doing it.” - Unknown

“Good things come to those who wait… greater things come to those who get off their ass and do anything to make it happen.” - Unknown


“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude.” - Denis Waitley

Friday, December 12, 2014

Inspirational Life Quotes

Inspirational Life Quotes

“Just know, when you truly want success, you’ll never give up on it. No matter how bad the situation may get.” - Unknown

“Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.” –Les Brown

“I don’t regret the things I’ve done, I regret the things I didn’t do when I had the chance.” – Unknown


“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” - Joshua J. Marine

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Inspirational Quotes

“Love what you have. Need what you want. Accept what you receive. Give what you can. Always remember, what goes around, comes around…” – Unknwon



“Just remember there is someone out there that is more than happy with less than what you have.” –Unknown



“The biggest failure you can have in life is making the mistake of never trying at all.” – Unknown




“Life has two rules: #1 Never quit #2 Always remember rule # 1.” - Unknown

From Anne

“Actions speak louder than words.”  Author Anne Thomas

You say you love me, but you wander and stray.
You lose yourself in drink and drugs;
Then you think that I am being mean;
When I tell you they will be your death one day.
You say you love me, but you wander and stray.
Actions speak louder than words.
Little ones follow behind you;
One day soon, will they think, it is okay;
To be just like you?
It really does no good to tell them “Don’t do as you see done; do as I say.”
You say you love me, but you wander and stray.
Actions speak louder than words.
You leave me no choice; the example must be gone.
The only answer is divorce; because actions speak louder than words.

“Jesus Christ said 'by their fruits ye shall know them,' not by their disclaimers.” 
 
William S. Burroughs
“Life is too short to be around someone that says they love you but doesn't show it.” 
 
Elizabeth Bourgeret
“Grace is given not to them who speak [their faith] but to those who live their faith.”
― St. Gregory the Theologian

“They don’t see what they’re doing. The only thing they see are their intentions.”
― Amy Neftzger, The Orchard of Hope

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Family Pictures
















Sisters and brother, Anne Thomas, Danny Thomas, and Jean Thomas, at the Thomas Family Reunion 2014, Rockholds, Kentucky.











Jean Thomas with her daughter, Jenny Fisher and two of her three sons, Jason Fisher and Bill Howell, at the Thomas Family Reunion 2014, Rockholds, Kentucky.

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Family Pictures 1953


This is Ms Alberta, Edith Alberta Shoupe Thomas (b 8/1/1926 d 5/4/2011)
and
Harold Lee Thomas (b 8/4/1924 d 1/14/1968).

The picture was taken on Old Sportsman Lake Road, Elizabethtown, KY in 1953

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Family

This is Buck and Rachel Vaughn. It was taken the day Buck signed up to join the Navy, WWII was beginning. 
Buck was Pop Shoupe's brother.

Friday, November 28, 2014

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Family Photo

This is a picture of Ms Alberta, Edith Alberta Shoupe Thomas Brandon, approximate age 12, and her sister Ardith Faye Shoupe Wilson Harris, approximate age 8.

The picture was taken between 1938 and 1940.

Quote

I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequence of every deed, word and thought throughout our lifetime.

Elizabeth Kubler Ross. 1926-2004

Swiss born American psychiatrist

Friday, November 21, 2014

Quote

I don’t think of myself as a poor, deprived ghetto girl who made good. I think of myself as somebody who from an early age knew I was responsible for myself, and I had to make good.


Oprah Winfrey born 1954

Thursday, November 20, 2014

My Inspiration

You guide me with Your counsel, and afterward You will take me up in glory.
Whom do I have in heaven but You? And I desire nothing on earth but You.
My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart, my portion forever.

Psalm 73:24-26

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Quote: Helen Keller


I am only one.

But still I am one.

I cannot do everything.

I will not refuse to do

 the something I can do.

Helen Keller 1880 – 1968
American writer and lecturer


Sunday, November 9, 2014

Toxic People

Toxic People
By Daniell Koepke – Simple Reminders

You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life.

It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance – you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small.


It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and “continues” to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

What is marriage?


Marriage is a dance set to the beat of two hearts.

One Heart – Two Souls
Guideposts Encouragement 2013 SC140-11


Let marriage be held in honor by all. Hebrews 13:4 ESV


RE: Anniversaries from Guideposts Encouragement 2013

Marriage is nothing short of a miracle – the creation of one heart fashioned from the clay of two consenting souls. It is the work of God perfected over time as we learn to manage conflict productively and rebound from our mistakes. When we discover the secrets of living in harmony, we take steps of genuine growth into what God intends for us to be. Every anniversary brings us closer to the fulfillment of God’s purposes in our lives. Even if the path to this day has sometimes been difficult, you've earned the celebration. Make it one to remember.


Monday, November 3, 2014

Twelve Steps for Self Care

Twelve Steps for Self Care
From FaceBook.com/ChangeYour ThoughtsToday

1.  If it feels wrong, don’t do it.

2.  Say “exactly” what you mean.

3.  Don’t be a people pleaser.

4.  Trust your instincts.

5.  Never speak bad about yourself.

6.  Never give up on your dreams.

7.  Don’t be afraid to say “No”.

8.  Don’t be afraid to say “Yes”.

9.  Be KIND to yourself.

10. Let go of what you can’t control.

11. Stay away from drama & negativity.

12. Love

Friday, October 31, 2014

The Bank Account

The Bank Account
from The ThingsWeSay.com

Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.

What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course? Each of us has such a bank. Its name is time. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every  night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no over draft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day. If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against “tomorrow” You must live in the present on today’s deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success.


The clock is running. Make the most of today.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

The Speech

By
Alberta Anne Thomas

As my children were growing up I wanted them to learn responsibility for themselves; so I gave each of them this speech at what I thought was the right age for them to understand.

Life isn’t easy. Nothing will be handed to you on a silver platter. If you want to go somewhere and do something with your life there is only one person you can rely on.

That person is you. If something bad happens, reach down, get hold of your boot tops and pull yourself up. No one else can do this for you.

In other words: “If life hands you lemons, make lemonade.” No sugar? No problem! Add more water; lemon water is good for you.

If something breaks you; remember in the long run it will only make you stronger. Because, just like a broken bone is stronger when it heals and is less easily broken; trials and tribulations will teach you something and will make you stronger and better able to make a better decision the next time.

You MUST realize there is something called ‘Cause and Effect’. Everything you do causes an effect that reacts and can cause a chain reaction in your life. YOU must take the responsibility for this is your life. There can be no excuses of someone or something else causing whatever is going on in your life. You have the ability and the responsibility to make a decision; always keeping in mind that doing nothing is a decision in and of itself. If you do nothing, then that was the decision. Doing nothing also makes waves and has causes and effects. Don’t pay the rent and you get evicted. Don’t eat right and you get sick.

If you don’t tell a friend “No, I don’t want a drink or to do drugs.” Decision made. Wrong decision, in my opinion, but the decision was yours. You made it and you are responsible for it.


Always remember that I love you and God loves you. Also remember that you are the one responsible for your decisions.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Miracles Everyday!


I was asked once if I believed in miracles; my answer was a simple yes.

Today I have more reasons to believe than ever. In less than one year I have seen the birth of two “miracle babies”; Kaydence Shai Tipton and Zander Cash Mullins.

My oldest granddaughter, Keary, and her husband, Kevin, have always wanted a large family. But in the five years they have been married there have been four pregnancies and only one full term baby. When Keary was in her sixth month a soccer ball size tumor was found growing along with the baby in the womb. There were two choices: let the tumor grow and take a chance it would take all the nutrients the baby needed for growth and health or take a chance of an early delivery by doing surgery to remove the tumor.

The choice was made to do the surgery. My great granddaughter, Kassidie Lynn Tipton, was born healthy and whole.

 In March of 2012 Keary was once again expecting a baby. Pictures were taken in vitro of the small life growing inside of her. Six weeks later the babies heart simply stopped beating and the baby was gone. The doctor had no explanation. Keary and Kevin were devastated. Keary mourned by herself because Kevin simply denied Keary had ever been pregnant. This was Kevin’s coping mechanism to avoid grief.

In March of 2013 Keary started having pain through her pelvic area and being extremely ill. The doctor was concerned that she might have another tumor growing and would need another surgery. A procedure was done and much to everyone’s surprise the so called “tumor” was a baby! The baby would be due in December and because of what had happened before Keary’s pregnancy would be followed carefully and often.

Again in the sixth month the doctor told Keary and Kevin that there was a tumor growing. Unfortunately that tumor was growing on the brain stem of the fetus. If the baby made it to full term there was a very real probability that she would never walk or talk and a very high probability that she would be both mentally retarded and handicapped, spending all of her life in a wheelchair.

It was at this time that both Keary and Kevin began to pray. At first they didn't pray together and neither knew that the other was going to a higher power. Then one day as my granddaughter was praying her kitten brought her a small piece of wadded up paper.

Out of curiosity she unrolled the piece of paper. On that paper in her grandfather’s handwriting were written the words “Keary, I love you. Everything will be all right.” 

The words were not so miraculous; but the very existence of that piece of paper was something miraculous because her grandfather had died of cancer in August of 2008 and Keary did not ever remember having received a note like that from her grandfather.

As she sat pondering where and how that note had come to her, Kevin came in and told her that he had been praying and that he felt everything would be okay with the baby because he had been praying and had felt such a feeling of comfort and relief from worry that he felt God had answered his prayers.

When they went for the next checkup, the tumor was still in evidence but not growing as it had been. The next checkup was the same; the tumor was still in evidence but not growing. The last check up before the babies term date the tumor was gone. It had simply disappeared.

Kaydence Shai Tipton was born December 12, 2013. Within an hour of her birth she turned blue, stopped breathing and lay lifeless in her mother’s arms. My daughter noticed what was happening, took Kaydi from Keary and had Kevin ring for the nurse on her way out of the door. The nurse met her outside the door, grabbed Kaydi and ran with her to the nursery.  A very tense fifteen minutes later the nurse returned to say that Kaydi was stable but would remain in the nursery until the pediatrician could run further test.

Kaydi Shai will soon be a year old; she is a beautiful, happy little girl.

My oldest grandson, Broc Mullins stands six feet seven inches, and his wife, Holly, stands four feet nine inches. They have always known that they might never be able to have children because of all the medical problems that Holly has always had. So when she started feeling sick they thought it meant she would probably be having another surgery to correct another problem. Much to their surprise her illness this time was a pregnancy that was not supposed to be possible.


On March 30, 2014, Zander Cash Mullins came into this world crying loudly to announce his birth. At two and a half months, Zander is a joy to all; especially his Oma Chris. Zander is her only grandchild.

Friday, October 10, 2014

Recipe: Alberta Brandon’s Best Ever Pumpkin Pie

I am going to try to post some of the recipes that were Ms Alberta's favorite that I have not posted before. 

If you have recipes that you would like to share I would be glad to have them. I am hoping to have a Friends and Family Cook Book finished by September of 2015.

We are only a month away from Thanksgiving; so Pumpkin Pie is going to lead the way.


Alberta Brandon’s Best Ever Pumpkin Pie

1 large can Pumpkin (I prefer Lilly’s)                             1 cup light brown sugar
1 cup sugar                                                                   1 can evaporated milk
½ cup water                                                                 1 cup regular milk
5 large eggs                                                                  1 tablespoon flour
2 tsp pumpkin pie spice                                                1 tsp nutmeg
½ tsp salt                                                                      ½ cup water


Put all ingredients in mixer blend at low speed until well mixed. Pour into 2 unbaked deep dish pie crusts. Bake for 15 minutes at 425 degrees then 45 minutes at 350. Check pies with knife blade; should come out clean if pies are done. Serve with cool whip.